Hello again! It’s been awhile since the last post, so I thought I’d share a few updates before moving on with other posts. I’m the worst when it comes to posting on the blog. I keep telling myself that this will be the year I restart my blog, and nope, not happening.
I do post semi-regularly on Instagram, but sometimes there are things on my mind too long to fit into a caption. Sometimes I just want to share words, not pictures. Right now I can’t even be bothered to put pictures here, so if all this text is too much for you, oh well, Instagram.
Edwin moved to Malaysia about three weeks ago. The original plan was that we’d move as a family, but since we’re in the midst of a pandemic, the kids and I are staying here. The obvious downside to the new plan is that I have to figure out this solo parenting gig, and it’s… a work in progress.
To give myself a little breathing space, I’ve signed Ellie up for play group, so twice a week she gets to play with kids her age, while I get to run errands with just one kid. When Vivi’s a little older, I’ll probably enroll her in the same play group, and *hooray* get some real me-time for the first time in… three years? It’s all a blur now.
Ellie’s gone to her new school (for simplicity’s sake let’s just call it a school) for two weeks now, and she LOVES it. It’s pretty much an indoor playground with teachers. I love that they focus on physical play, because there’s really no need to focus on academics for two and three year old children. They do have things like “Letter of the Day”, and arts and crafts, but for the most part it’s just a bunch of fun activities for kids.
So that’s the biggest change in our lives so far. I’m still homeschooling them for the most part, and it’s been tiring but rewarding. Yes, cliched but true. Ellie’s turning three next month, and it’s amazing to watch her learn and grow. It seems like she’s saying new words and phrases every day. Vivi’s speech development is even more impressive. She picks up all these words (and mannerisms) from her big sister. Just last night, she said “eyes” and “glasses” for the first time. Not bad for an almost 17 month old!
Moving forward, the plan is to blog at least once a month (but don’t hold your breath). I’ve been planning to share a list of book recommendations for babies and toddlers, as well as gift guides. I actually started typing up the gift guide months ago, hoping to post it by Christmas, but as you know… life happens. Another post I want to write is about gender norms/expectations, how we might challenge ourselves to know better, and raise the new generation to be better. Heavy stuff.
Alright, that’s all for now!
XOXO